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    SOMETIMES I HATE MYSELF, TOO
    nicole calder
    • May 17
    • 1 min

    SOMETIMES I HATE MYSELF, TOO

    over the past couple of months, i've really struggled with who i am. i've lost sight of my values. i've become fixated on things that i...
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    IT'S NOT ABOUT THE MONEY
    nicole calder
    • May 14
    • 2 min

    IT'S NOT ABOUT THE MONEY

    it's about the principle. i was recently demoted at work. demoted after being promised that nothing was changing with my role. demoted...
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    UNCONSCIOUS NATURE OF SOCIAL MEDIA
    nicole calder
    • May 2
    • 2 min

    UNCONSCIOUS NATURE OF SOCIAL MEDIA

    looking through my facebook memories over the past couple of weeks, i've found it interesting to see the development of social media over...
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    PEOPLE AREN'T AGAINST YOU, THEY'RE FOR THEMSELVES
    nicole calder
    • Nov 7, 2021
    • 2 min

    PEOPLE AREN'T AGAINST YOU, THEY'RE FOR THEMSELVES

    read that again. this is one of the most liberating phrases you will ever read. often in life we tend to do two things - we tend to take...
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    I'M A FRAUD
    nicole calder
    • Oct 10, 2021
    • 1 min

    I'M A FRAUD

    for the past few months, i've devoted myself to training individuals to support others when they're struggling. but in particular, my...
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    SAY SORRY
    nicole calder
    • Jun 19, 2021
    • 2 min

    SAY SORRY

    even if you don't think you're in the wrong. apologising doesn't mean you accept the other person's behaviour, nor does it mean you don't...
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    HUMBLING TRUTHS OF THE ELDERLY
    nicole calder
    • Feb 16, 2021
    • 2 min

    HUMBLING TRUTHS OF THE ELDERLY

    growing old isn't easy. it's challenging and often confusing. not only is this a difficult process for those experiencing the ageing, but...
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    CHOOSE LOVE, NOT FEAR
    nicole calder
    • Feb 12, 2021
    • 2 min

    CHOOSE LOVE, NOT FEAR

    i've never understood why we complicate love and relationships. if you like someone and they like you, why then would you not want to be...
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    BEFORE YOU CALL THEM CRAZY...
    nicole calder
    • Jan 27, 2021
    • 1 min

    BEFORE YOU CALL THEM CRAZY...

    try to understand. behind every insecurity is a need that hasn’t been met. a desire that went unfulfilled. and a belief that has become...
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    WHAT WOULD YOU THINK ABOUT...
    nicole calder
    • Oct 23, 2020
    • 2 min

    WHAT WOULD YOU THINK ABOUT...

    if your mind was free to think about anything? often in life we become fixated - on people, on things, on situations that it ends up...
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    POLITICS
    nicole calder
    • Jun 22, 2020
    • 2 min

    POLITICS

    i try to stay away from commenting on politics, not because i don’t have an opinion, but because i don’t have all the facts. and the...
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    ARE YOU HELPING OR HURTING?
    nicole calder
    • May 4, 2020
    • 2 min

    ARE YOU HELPING OR HURTING?

    on my way to work yesterday, i passed a galah that was unable to fly. growing up being a vet’s daughter, i naturally stopped, wrapped it...
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