SOMETIMES I HATE MYSELF, TOO
over the past couple of months, i've really struggled with who i am. i've lost sight of my values. i've become fixated on things that i...
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nicole calder
- May 15
- 2 min
IT'S NOT ABOUT THE MONEY
it's about the principle. i was recently demoted at work. demoted after being promised that nothing was changing with my role. demoted...
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nicole calder
- May 3
- 2 min
UNCONSCIOUS NATURE OF SOCIAL MEDIA
looking through my facebook memories over the past couple of weeks, i've found it interesting to see the development of social media over...
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nicole calder
- Nov 8, 2021
- 2 min
PEOPLE AREN'T AGAINST YOU, THEY'RE FOR THEMSELVES
read that again. this is one of the most liberating phrases you will ever read. often in life we tend to do two things - we tend to take...
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nicole calder
- Oct 11, 2021
- 1 min
I'M A FRAUD
for the past few months, i've devoted myself to training individuals to support others when they're struggling. but in particular, my...
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nicole calder
- Jun 20, 2021
- 2 min
SAY SORRY
even if you don't think you're in the wrong. apologising doesn't mean you accept the other person's behaviour, nor does it mean you don't...
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nicole calder
- Feb 17, 2021
- 2 min
HUMBLING TRUTHS OF THE ELDERLY
growing old isn't easy. it's challenging and often confusing. not only is this a difficult process for those experiencing the ageing, but...
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nicole calder
- Feb 13, 2021
- 2 min
CHOOSE LOVE, NOT FEAR
i've never understood why we complicate love and relationships. if you like someone and they like you, why then would you not want to be...
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nicole calder
- Jan 28, 2021
- 1 min
BEFORE YOU CALL THEM CRAZY...
try to understand. behind every insecurity is a need that hasn’t been met. a desire that went unfulfilled. and a belief that has become...
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nicole calder
- Oct 24, 2020
- 2 min
WHAT WOULD YOU THINK ABOUT...
if your mind was free to think about anything? often in life we become fixated - on people, on things, on situations that it ends up...
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nicole calder
- Jun 23, 2020
- 2 min
POLITICS
i try to stay away from commenting on politics, not because i don’t have an opinion, but because i don’t have all the facts. and the...
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nicole calder
- May 5, 2020
- 2 min
ARE YOU HELPING OR HURTING?
on my way to work yesterday, i passed a galah that was unable to fly. growing up being a vet’s daughter, i naturally stopped, wrapped it...
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