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    CHEATING
    nicole calder
    • Aug 15, 2021
    • 2 min

    CHEATING

    what does it mean to ‘cheat on someone’? is it considered cheating to be attracted to someone else? to feel connected to someone else? to...
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    HOW DO YOU END A RELATIONSHIP?
    nicole calder
    • Jul 25, 2021
    • 2 min

    HOW DO YOU END A RELATIONSHIP?

    is there ever a way for a relationship to end amicably? yes. but how you behave often determines how that person behaves. so how do you...
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    THE BEAUTY OF PERSPECTIVE
    nicole calder
    • May 27, 2021
    • 2 min

    THE BEAUTY OF PERSPECTIVE

    love blinds us. when we're with someone, we're so caught up in ‘making it work' we don't stop to consider whether this is actually the...
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    TRY HARDER OR LEAVE?
    nicole calder
    • May 20, 2021
    • 2 min

    TRY HARDER OR LEAVE?

    one of the hardest questions to ask yourself is do i try harder or do i leave? and often that question isn't as straightforward as it...
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    BREAK UPS
    nicole calder
    • Oct 12, 2020
    • 2 min

    BREAK UPS

    i believe break ups are one of the hardest things people go through in their lives. it might seem trivial, given how commonplace they...
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    be not yourself
    nicole calder
    • Feb 4, 2017
    • 2 min

    be not yourself

    "be yourself" they say but how can you? in a world that wants you to be everything but yourself a world that is fundamentally superficial...
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    Heartbreak
    nicole calder
    • Dec 11, 2016
    • 2 min

    Heartbreak

    Heartbreak isn’t what you think It’s not an isolated event that only occurs at the termination of a relationship Heartbreak is prolonged...
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    Be the author of your life
    nicole calder
    • Sep 3, 2016
    • 5 min

    Be the author of your life

    In life we have two options: be an author, or be a victim. We can hold ourselves accountable, or we can be unaccountable. We can be the...
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    What’s up with our dating culture?
    nicole calder
    • Aug 16, 2016
    • 7 min

    What’s up with our dating culture?

    I’ve had a few very good conversations centred around this topic of late, many of which have been inspired by someone who lives and loves...
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    The precursor to "The Beauty in Pain"
    nicole calder
    • Apr 20, 2016
    • 16 min

    The precursor to "The Beauty in Pain"

    This topic has been on my heart a lot since initiating this blog. I have frequently found myself wanting to write about my experiences,...
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    A love letter of sorts
    nicole calder
    • Mar 27, 2016
    • 7 min

    A love letter of sorts

    To the woman who last had my heart, My life hasn’t made much sense without you. I feel as though I’m merely existing, not living. That’s...
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    “One liners” – Advice that really isn’t that practical
    nicole calder
    • Mar 21, 2016
    • 9 min

    “One liners” – Advice that really isn’t that practical

    How many times have you opened yourself up to someone, only for them to reply with just love yourself or just be positive? Yet, despite...
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    Moving on in the 21st century
    nicole calder
    • Mar 14, 2016
    • 10 min

    Moving on in the 21st century

    How many of you have really struggled to move on with your life after a break up? Perhaps you’ve struggled to let go, or perhaps you’ve...
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