CHEATING
what does it mean to ‘cheat on someone’? is it considered cheating to be attracted to someone else? to feel connected to someone else? to...
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nicole calder
- Jul 26, 2021
- 2 min
HOW DO YOU END A RELATIONSHIP?
is there ever a way for a relationship to end amicably? yes. but how you behave often determines how that person behaves. so how do you...
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nicole calder
- May 28, 2021
- 2 min
THE BEAUTY OF PERSPECTIVE
love blinds us. when we're with someone, we're so caught up in ‘making it work' we don't stop to consider whether this is actually the...
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nicole calder
- May 21, 2021
- 2 min
TRY HARDER OR LEAVE?
one of the hardest questions to ask yourself is do i try harder or do i leave? and often that question isn't as straightforward as it...
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nicole calder
- Oct 13, 2020
- 2 min
BREAK UPS
i believe break ups are one of the hardest things people go through in their lives. it might seem trivial, given how commonplace they...
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nicole calder
- Feb 5, 2017
- 2 min
be not yourself
"be yourself" they say but how can you? in a world that wants you to be everything but yourself a world that is fundamentally superficial...
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nicole calder
- Dec 12, 2016
- 2 min
Heartbreak
Heartbreak isn’t what you think It’s not an isolated event that only occurs at the termination of a relationship Heartbreak is prolonged...
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nicole calder
- Sep 4, 2016
- 5 min
Be the author of your life
In life we have two options: be an author, or be a victim. We can hold ourselves accountable, or we can be unaccountable. We can be the...
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nicole calder
- Aug 17, 2016
- 7 min
What’s up with our dating culture?
I’ve had a few very good conversations centred around this topic of late, many of which have been inspired by someone who lives and loves...
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nicole calder
- Apr 21, 2016
- 16 min
The precursor to "The Beauty in Pain"
This topic has been on my heart a lot since initiating this blog. I have frequently found myself wanting to write about my experiences,...
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nicole calder
- Mar 28, 2016
- 7 min
A love letter of sorts
To the woman who last had my heart, My life hasn’t made much sense without you. I feel as though I’m merely existing, not living. That’s...
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nicole calder
- Mar 22, 2016
- 9 min
“One liners” – Advice that really isn’t that practical
How many times have you opened yourself up to someone, only for them to reply with just love yourself or just be positive? Yet, despite...
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nicole calder
- Mar 15, 2016
- 10 min
Moving on in the 21st century
How many of you have really struggled to move on with your life after a break up? Perhaps you’ve struggled to let go, or perhaps you’ve...
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