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    SOMETIMES I HATE MYSELF, TOO
    nicole calder
    • May 17
    • 1 min

    SOMETIMES I HATE MYSELF, TOO

    over the past couple of months, i've really struggled with who i am. i've lost sight of my values. i've become fixated on things that i...
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    WHAT HAVE I DONE
    nicole calder
    • May 5
    • 2 min

    WHAT HAVE I DONE

    i quit my job. i'm turning 29 this year and i keep asking myself; what the fuck are you doing with your life? how long are you going to...
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    WHAT WE RESISTS, PERSISTS
    nicole calder
    • Jun 27, 2021
    • 2 min

    WHAT WE RESISTS, PERSISTS

    sometimes life can be shit. there's no denying that. but often when we experience undesirable feelings, we try to run from them rather...
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    WE DON'T NEED MORE PSYCHOLOGISTS
    nicole calder
    • Apr 9, 2021
    • 2 min

    WE DON'T NEED MORE PSYCHOLOGISTS

    well, we do. but that's not the solution. the reality is, we're always going to need more psychologists. just like we're always going to...
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    CHECK YOURSELF BEFORE YOU WRECK YOURSELF
    nicole calder
    • Feb 23, 2021
    • 2 min

    CHECK YOURSELF BEFORE YOU WRECK YOURSELF

    stress is something all of us are no doubt familiar with. and that in itself is scary - the fact that it is so commonplace. the worst...
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    HUMBLING TRUTHS OF THE ELDERLY
    nicole calder
    • Feb 16, 2021
    • 2 min

    HUMBLING TRUTHS OF THE ELDERLY

    growing old isn't easy. it's challenging and often confusing. not only is this a difficult process for those experiencing the ageing, but...
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    BEFORE YOU CALL THEM CRAZY...
    nicole calder
    • Jan 27, 2021
    • 1 min

    BEFORE YOU CALL THEM CRAZY...

    try to understand. behind every insecurity is a need that hasn’t been met. a desire that went unfulfilled. and a belief that has become...
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    WHAT WOULD YOU THINK ABOUT...
    nicole calder
    • Oct 23, 2020
    • 2 min

    WHAT WOULD YOU THINK ABOUT...

    if your mind was free to think about anything? often in life we become fixated - on people, on things, on situations that it ends up...
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    BREAK UPS
    nicole calder
    • Oct 12, 2020
    • 2 min

    BREAK UPS

    i believe break ups are one of the hardest things people go through in their lives. it might seem trivial, given how commonplace they...
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    SELF-DOUBT
    nicole calder
    • Sep 26, 2020
    • 2 min

    SELF-DOUBT

    despite my recent posts on confidence and knowing your value, that’s not to say everything is always sunshine and rainbows in the world...
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    REJECTION
    nicole calder
    • Aug 29, 2020
    • 1 min

    REJECTION

    getting rejected sucks. whether it be for a job, a person, or being selected on a team, no one likes the feelings that rejection brings....
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    WHY DO WORDS HURT?
    nicole calder
    • Aug 25, 2020
    • 2 min

    WHY DO WORDS HURT?

    last week i had a situation where someone said some hurtful things to me. immediately after the words were expressed, i broke down in...
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    WEIGHT LOSS
    nicole calder
    • Aug 8, 2020
    • 2 min

    WEIGHT LOSS

    in 18 months, i lost 10kgs. my secret? i didn’t intend to. i always have mixed feelings about goal setting because when we set goals,...
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    "STICKS AND STONES...
    nicole calder
    • Aug 4, 2020
    • 1 min

    "STICKS AND STONES...

    may break my bones but words will never hurt me.” whoever came up with this phrase has obviously never truly lived. because reality is,...
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