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THE CURSE OF 30
over the years i've had countless friends who seem to experience an existential crisis when they near the age of 30. at the time, which...

nicole calder
Jul 24, 20222 min read


INCENTIVE FOR CHANGE
"people do well when they can do well, not just when they want to do well." i've used this phrase frequently over the years as it's...

nicole calder
Jun 2, 20222 min read


WE AVOID WHAT'S UNCOMFORTABLE
how many times have you put off an uncomfortable conversation? and how many times have you been relieved once you've actually had that...

nicole calder
Apr 14, 20222 min read


PEOPLE AREN'T AGAINST YOU, THEY'RE FOR THEMSELVES
read that again. this is one of the most liberating phrases you will ever read. often in life we tend to do two things - we tend to take...

nicole calder
Nov 8, 20212 min read


I'M A FRAUD
for the past few months, i've devoted myself to training individuals to support others when they're struggling. but in particular, my...

nicole calder
Oct 11, 20211 min read


FULL CIRCLE MOMENTS
can you ever really understand a situation until you've been through similar? the times in my life where i've endured the most pain have...

nicole calder
Sep 19, 20212 min read


WHAT IS THE UNIVERSE ASKING OF ME?
"the teacher will present itself when the student is ready." life can be challenging. but challenges serve to help us grow. the more pain...

nicole calder
Sep 10, 20212 min read


BEING YOURSELF
have you ever wondered why your relationships or friendships don't seem fulfilling? have you ever felt like you weren't being heard or...

nicole calder
Aug 30, 20212 min read


THE IMPORTANCE OF GETTING YOUR NEEDS MET
for those of you who know me, you'll know that maslow's hierarchy of needs is one of my favourite pyramids to reference. i spent many...

nicole calder
Jul 30, 20212 min read


WHAT WE RESISTS, PERSISTS
sometimes life can be shit. there's no denying that. but often when we experience undesirable feelings, we try to run from them rather...

nicole calder
Jun 28, 20212 min read


DO WHAT YOU WANT
because why would you want to do something you didn't want to do? i suspect for many people there's a significant amount of resistance...

nicole calder
May 31, 20212 min read


RESILIENCY
this is the time for it. and you know what? we’re all resilient. resiliency is in our nature. it’s what makes us who we are. no matter...

nicole calder
Apr 1, 20201 min read
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