nicole calder

is there ever a way for a relationship to end amicably? yes. but how you behave often determines how that person behaves. so how do you...

what's considered a setback and what's considered a sign? when is it called persistence and when is it called stupidity? suffering isn't...

one of the hardest questions to ask yourself is do i try harder or do i leave? and often that question isn't as straightforward as it...

we as humans like to attach to people and to things. attachment gives us a sense of security, a sense of purpose, a sense of control. but...

i believe break ups are one of the hardest things people go through in their lives. it might seem trivial, given how commonplace they...

​Almost two months ago I wrote about the effects of my Dad’s medical scare and the resulting confrontation with not only my own...

This is a topic I don’t want to talk about. I don’t want to talk about it because it scares the fucking shit out of me. The concept of...

this is not something i want to write about, it’s not something i want to talk about. death scares the fucking shit out of me. it...

How? How do you let go? How do you let go of something you still want, but can’t have? This isn’t a trick question, nor is it a post with...

Is it possible to ever truly appreciate something without being exposed to the stark harshness of its contrasting and opposing...

“Most suicidal people are undecided about whether they really want to live or die. Sometimes when they attempt suicide they are gambling...