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nicole calder
Nov 14, 20212 min read
A FRIEND FOR A LOVER
i always thought that to be with someone there had to be an initial spark. an initial attraction. an initial desire. my current...
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nicole calder
May 21, 20212 min read
TRY HARDER OR LEAVE?
one of the hardest questions to ask yourself is do i try harder or do i leave? and often that question isn't as straightforward as it...
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nicole calder
Jul 27, 20202 min read
SUICIDES
there’s been quite a few recently. and i think what’s so upsetting about them is knowing how much pain these individuals were in to...
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nicole calder
Jun 28, 20202 min read
PET APPRECIATION POST
how great are pets, am i right?! seriously though, i think animals and pets are an extremely underrated form of a coping mechanism. data...
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nicole calder
Dec 16, 20194 min read
Letting go
How? How do you let go? How do you let go of something you still want, but can’t have? This isn’t a trick question, nor is it a post with...
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nicole calder
Oct 14, 20195 min read
A work in progress
The only thing that’s constant in life is change. Our state of mind is never guaranteed. That’s why striving for happiness is an...
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nicole calder
Nov 6, 20185 min read
Connection is the ultimate antidepressant
Sport is a drug. And I was addicted to it. When I was cut from the United squad a few weeks ago, I went through some extreme withdrawals....
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nicole calder
Apr 5, 20175 min read
The humbling nature of suffering
There is much to learn from being on the receiving end of a particular situation that has formerly caused significant pain and suffering....
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