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SOMETIMES A WILLINGNESS IS NOT ENOUGH
a few weeks ago, a situation came up between my partner and me. my partner was trying to explain her perspective and her reasoning, but...

nicole calder
Jun 12, 20222 min read
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HUMBLING TRUTHS OF THE ELDERLY
growing old isn't easy. it's challenging and often confusing. not only is this a difficult process for those experiencing the ageing, but...

nicole calder
Feb 16, 20212 min read
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BEFORE YOU START BLAMING...
check yourself. what needs do you have that aren’t being met? what are you upset about? get curious about what you're feeling - why is...

nicole calder
Feb 5, 20211 min read
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BEFORE YOU CALL THEM CRAZY...
try to understand. behind every insecurity is a need that hasn’t been met. a desire that went unfulfilled. and a belief that has become...

nicole calder
Jan 27, 20211 min read
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EXPLAIN, DON'T EXCUSE
one of the primary principles i learned in psychology was to explain human behaviour, not excuse it. understanding why humans behave the...

nicole calder
Oct 4, 20201 min read
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COMPASSION
through most of my life, people have told me that i think too much. that i analyse too much. that i can be “too much”. but here’s what i...

nicole calder
Sep 9, 20202 min read
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YOUR BOSS IS A HUMAN TOO
this past week, i witnessed two men i respect become vulnerable with me. one admitted that he had been struggling with motivation ever...

nicole calder
May 30, 20201 min read
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