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THE PAIN OF BEING MISUNDERSTOOD
when i was a kid, i always felt like there was something wrong with me. aside from my sexuality, i seemed to care about things many...

nicole calder
Sep 4, 20222 min read


DELAYED GRATIFICATION
what i'm finding so challenging with the work i'm doing is the delay between the interest and the execution. the silence between...

nicole calder
Apr 25, 20222 min read


HOW DO YOU END A RELATIONSHIP?
is there ever a way for a relationship to end amicably? yes. but how you behave often determines how that person behaves. so how do you...

nicole calder
Jul 26, 20212 min read


REJECTION
getting rejected sucks. whether it be for a job, a person, or being selected on a team, no one likes the feelings that rejection brings....

nicole calder
Aug 30, 20201 min read


WHY DO WORDS HURT?
last week i had a situation where someone said some hurtful things to me. immediately after the words were expressed, i broke down in...

nicole calder
Aug 26, 20202 min read


"STICKS AND STONES...
may break my bones but words will never hurt me.” whoever came up with this phrase has obviously never truly lived. because reality is,...

nicole calder
Aug 5, 20201 min read


The ugly side of sports
Our society operates on the premise that if you work hard enough, you can achieve anything you want. But there’s a fundamental flaw in...

nicole calder
Oct 15, 20189 min read


Heartbreak
Heartbreak isn’t what you think It’s not an isolated event that only occurs at the termination of a relationship Heartbreak is prolonged...

nicole calder
Dec 11, 20162 min read
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