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Self-isolation
That’s what we’ve all essentially been confined to, except for those that are still working. What could possibly be so hard about staying...

nicole calder
Mar 24, 20205 min read


Covid-19
What a time to be alive. We’re in the middle of something that has the potential to be a turning point in history. This is the first...

nicole calder
Mar 23, 20204 min read


WANT TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE?
actually give a shit. why? because many organisations and people don’t. so give a shit about your people and their development. care...

nicole calder
Feb 24, 20201 min read


The importance of feeling valued
Valued. We all want to feel it. We all need to feel it. Feeling valued means we feel seen. It means that we feel safe. It means that...

nicole calder
Feb 3, 20195 min read


Connection is the ultimate antidepressant
Sport is a drug. And I was addicted to it. When I was cut from the United squad a few weeks ago, I went through some extreme withdrawals....

nicole calder
Nov 6, 20185 min read


From safety to love
“You can’t help anyone who doesn’t want to be helped.” How often have you heard this phrase throughout your life? And do you really...

nicole calder
Sep 17, 20186 min read


Using a smile to see
I read something a few years ago in The Art of Belonging by Hugh Mackay that has continued to influence my perception of human...

nicole calder
Oct 15, 20174 min read


Worlds Apart
Surprisingly, despite me having just moved back to Australia, this post does not pertain to distance, but to time and experience. Since...

nicole calder
Aug 28, 20176 min read


What do you not want?
How often have you been asked this seemingly simple question of, what do you want? Whether that’s been in the form of a profession, a...

nicole calder
May 22, 201712 min read


The contrast necessary in genuine appreciation
Is it possible to ever truly appreciate something without being exposed to the stark harshness of its contrasting and opposing...

nicole calder
Jan 11, 20176 min read


What is the secret to life?
Last night I served the most beautiful woman. She was 93 years young and had a real zest for life. When I asked her what her secret is to...

nicole calder
Jun 28, 20169 min read


The importance of belonging
In order to experience the true elation of belonging, one must first experience the true isolation of feeling alone. And that I have...

nicole calder
Jun 19, 20167 min read


The invulnerability in vulnerability
As I was writing the post “The Power in Vulnerability,” I started to question why we perceive certain things as making ourselves...

nicole calder
May 6, 20167 min read


It’s not about the money
I felt seen last night. Understood too. Not on all levels, but on a level. The energy I exerted resonated with the table I was serving,...

nicole calder
Apr 3, 20169 min read


“One liners” – Advice that really isn’t that practical
How many times have you opened yourself up to someone, only for them to reply with just love yourself or just be positive? Yet, despite...

nicole calder
Mar 22, 20169 min read


The Power of Vulnerability
Before reading this post, I encourage you to check out the Ted Talk I posted above. Brené Brown is a phenomenal speaker who has devoted...

nicole calder
Mar 10, 20167 min read
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