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DO YOU EVER GET LONELY?
yeah well, me too. and it’s not the most enjoyable feeling. it’s a feeling i try to avoid, to escape, to mask with distractions. the...

nicole calder
Sep 24, 20201 min read


YOU HAVE TO REINFORCE THE GOOD
in fact, you have to do this often. if you want to change someone’s behaviour, telling them what they’re doing wrong is less effective...

nicole calder
Sep 17, 20201 min read


LOVE
loving someone isn’t about saving them. it’s not about changing their circumstances. it’s not about changing who they are or how they...

nicole calder
Sep 13, 20201 min read


COMPASSION
through most of my life, people have told me that i think too much. that i analyse too much. that i can be “too much”. but here’s what i...

nicole calder
Sep 9, 20202 min read


OUR NEED FOR CONTROL
as humans, we feel we need to be in control. we try to control our lives. we try to control other people. we try to predict the future....

nicole calder
Sep 6, 20202 min read
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