A FRIEND FOR A LOVER
i always thought that to be with someone there had to be an initial spark. an initial attraction. an initial desire. my current...
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nicole calder
- Aug 16, 2021
- 2 min
CHEATING
what does it mean to ‘cheat on someone’? is it considered cheating to be attracted to someone else? to feel connected to someone else? to...
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nicole calder
- Oct 13, 2020
- 2 min
BREAK UPS
i believe break ups are one of the hardest things people go through in their lives. it might seem trivial, given how commonplace they...
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nicole calder
- Jan 22, 2019
- 13 min
Get raw, get real
These are unedited excerpts from my journal. Some names have been altered to respect the privacy of the individuals mentioned. 17th...
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nicole calder
- May 28, 2018
- 8 min
Who do you want to become?
Sometimes it takes meeting someone to help you realise all the places in which you are stuck. At least that’s what happened with me....
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nicole calder
- Mar 10, 2017
- 7 min
The destruction caused in the name of religion
Do I like her? As a friend? As something more? Do I want to be her? Do I envy her? Do I like her style? Is she into women too? These are...
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nicole calder
- Dec 12, 2016
- 2 min
Heartbreak
Heartbreak isn’t what you think It’s not an isolated event that only occurs at the termination of a relationship Heartbreak is prolonged...
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nicole calder
- Nov 28, 2016
- 5 min
The deathly price of technology
We live in a technology-dominated society. The same technology that was once invented to make communication more accessible has been...
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nicole calder
- Oct 4, 2016
- 5 min
Be yourself and be okay with it
I have this phrase tattooed on me. Well, not tattooed, but I have it engraved on the dog tags that I wear all the time in remembrance of...
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nicole calder
- Aug 17, 2016
- 7 min
What’s up with our dating culture?
I’ve had a few very good conversations centred around this topic of late, many of which have been inspired by someone who lives and loves...
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nicole calder
- Jul 31, 2016
- 6 min
Who are you?
When asked who you are, how do you respond? How is it that you choose to define yourself? Many unconscious humans use labels to define...
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nicole calder
- Apr 21, 2016
- 16 min
The precursor to "The Beauty in Pain"
This topic has been on my heart a lot since initiating this blog. I have frequently found myself wanting to write about my experiences,...
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nicole calder
- Apr 19, 2016
- 14 min
What is your type?
I was challenged the other week. Do I have a type? When people answer this question, they typically do so in a very surface-level and...
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nicole calder
- Apr 3, 2016
- 9 min
It’s not about the money
I felt seen last night. Understood too. Not on all levels, but on a level. The energy I exerted resonated with the table I was serving,...
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nicole calder
- Mar 28, 2016
- 7 min
A love letter of sorts
To the woman who last had my heart, My life hasn’t made much sense without you. I feel as though I’m merely existing, not living. That’s...
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