nicole calderAug 18, 20223 minIF IT'S THERE, WE'LL USE IT humans lack willpower. especially in relation to things we are addicted to. often when we make claims of becoming 'sober' or quitting...
nicole calderJun 2, 20222 minINCENTIVE FOR CHANGE"people do well when they can do well, not just when they want to do well." i've used this phrase frequently over the years as it's...
nicole calderMay 24, 20222 minWHAT WE DON'T PUNISH, WE INADVERTENTLY REINFORCE we teach others how to treat us by what we reinforce and what we punish. so when someone acts adversely towards you or towards another...
nicole calderOct 4, 20201 minEXPLAIN, DON'T EXCUSEone of the primary principles i learned in psychology was to explain human behaviour, not excuse it. understanding why humans behave the...