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    SOMETIMES A WILLINGNESS IS NOT ENOUGH
    nicole calder
    • Jun 12
    • 2 min

    SOMETIMES A WILLINGNESS IS NOT ENOUGH

    a few weeks ago, a situation came up between my partner and me. my partner was trying to explain her perspective and her reasoning, but...
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    PEOPLE AREN'T AGAINST YOU, THEY'RE FOR THEMSELVES
    nicole calder
    • Nov 7, 2021
    • 2 min

    PEOPLE AREN'T AGAINST YOU, THEY'RE FOR THEMSELVES

    read that again. this is one of the most liberating phrases you will ever read. often in life we tend to do two things - we tend to take...
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    I'M A FRAUD
    nicole calder
    • Oct 10, 2021
    • 1 min

    I'M A FRAUD

    for the past few months, i've devoted myself to training individuals to support others when they're struggling. but in particular, my...
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    FULL CIRCLE MOMENTS
    nicole calder
    • Sep 19, 2021
    • 2 min

    FULL CIRCLE MOMENTS

    can you ever really understand a situation until you've been through similar? the times in my life where i've endured the most pain have...
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    WHAT IS THE UNIVERSE ASKING OF ME?
    nicole calder
    • Sep 10, 2021
    • 2 min

    WHAT IS THE UNIVERSE ASKING OF ME?

    "the teacher will present itself when the student is ready." life can be challenging. but challenges serve to help us grow. the more pain...
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    ASK BEAUTIFUL QUESTIONS
    nicole calder
    • Aug 11, 2021
    • 2 min

    ASK BEAUTIFUL QUESTIONS

    the quality of your life is determined by the quality of the questions you ask. often in life, we avoid asking the difficult questions....
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    BEFORE YOU START BLAMING...
    nicole calder
    • Feb 5, 2021
    • 1 min

    BEFORE YOU START BLAMING...

    check yourself. what needs do you have that aren’t being met? what are you upset about? get curious about what you're feeling - why is...
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    BEFORE YOU CALL THEM CRAZY...
    nicole calder
    • Jan 27, 2021
    • 1 min

    BEFORE YOU CALL THEM CRAZY...

    try to understand. behind every insecurity is a need that hasn’t been met. a desire that went unfulfilled. and a belief that has become...
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    YOUR BOSS IS A HUMAN TOO
    nicole calder
    • May 30, 2020
    • 1 min

    YOUR BOSS IS A HUMAN TOO

    this past week, i witnessed two men i respect become vulnerable with me. one admitted that he had been struggling with motivation ever...
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