perspective | nicole calder

SOMETIMES A WILLINGNESS IS NOT ENOUGH

a few weeks ago, a situation came up between my partner and me. my partner was trying to explain her perspective and her reasoning, but...

PEOPLE AREN'T AGAINST YOU, THEY'RE FOR THEMSELVES

read that again. this is one of the most liberating phrases you will ever read. often in life we tend to do two things - we tend to take...

I'M A FRAUD

for the past few months, i've devoted myself to training individuals to support others when they're struggling. but in particular, my...

FULL CIRCLE MOMENTS

can you ever really understand a situation until you've been through similar? the times in my life where i've endured the most pain have...

WHAT IS THE UNIVERSE ASKING OF ME?

"the teacher will present itself when the student is ready." life can be challenging. but challenges serve to help us grow. the more pain...

ASK BEAUTIFUL QUESTIONS

the quality of your life is determined by the quality of the questions you ask. often in life, we avoid asking the difficult questions....

BEFORE YOU START BLAMING...

check yourself. what needs do you have that aren’t being met? what are you upset about? get curious about what you're feeling - why is...

BEFORE YOU CALL THEM CRAZY...

try to understand. behind every insecurity is a need that hasn’t been met. a desire that went unfulfilled. and a belief that has become...

YOUR BOSS IS A HUMAN TOO

this past week, i witnessed two men i respect become vulnerable with me. one admitted that he had been struggling with motivation ever...