fear | nicole calder

WE ARE NOT THE STORIES WE TELL OURSELVES

"many people are afraid to heal because their entire identity is centred around the trauma they've experienced. they have no idea who...

WE AVOID WHAT'S UNCOMFORTABLE (Part 2)

how many times have you avoided asking a question because you know the answer is going to make you uncomfortable? and how many times have...

CHOOSE LOVE, NOT FEAR

i've never understood why we complicate love and relationships. if you like someone and they like you, why then would you not want to be...

Get raw, get real

These are unedited excerpts from my journal. Some names have been altered to respect the privacy of the individuals mentioned. 17th...

Not enough

These two words have pervasively infiltrated my life in the past week or so. After the realisation I discovered while in America about my...

Be yourself and be okay with it

I have this phrase tattooed on me. Well, not tattooed, but I have it engraved on the dog tags that I wear all the time in remembrance of...

Confronting fears

I’m sitting here currently crying. Earlier today I found out that the women’s premier soccer league (WPSL) in America will be back in...