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    PASSIVITY IS CONTROLLING OUR LIVES
    nicole calder
    • May 27
    • 2 min

    PASSIVITY IS CONTROLLING OUR LIVES

    three years ago i was sitting in a doctor's office being told "it's your acl...again." my brother and i then raced off to the airport as...
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    PEOPLE AREN'T AGAINST YOU, THEY'RE FOR THEMSELVES
    nicole calder
    • Nov 7, 2021
    • 2 min

    PEOPLE AREN'T AGAINST YOU, THEY'RE FOR THEMSELVES

    read that again. this is one of the most liberating phrases you will ever read. often in life we tend to do two things - we tend to take...
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    I'M A FRAUD
    nicole calder
    • Oct 10, 2021
    • 1 min

    I'M A FRAUD

    for the past few months, i've devoted myself to training individuals to support others when they're struggling. but in particular, my...
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    RESPECT BOUNDARIES
    nicole calder
    • Sep 27, 2021
    • 2 min

    RESPECT BOUNDARIES

    i've been reflecting recently on some of my behaviour with specific regards to relationships, new and old. and i've been struggling to...
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    FULL CIRCLE MOMENTS
    nicole calder
    • Sep 19, 2021
    • 2 min

    FULL CIRCLE MOMENTS

    can you ever really understand a situation until you've been through similar? the times in my life where i've endured the most pain have...
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    ASK BEAUTIFUL QUESTIONS
    nicole calder
    • Aug 11, 2021
    • 2 min

    ASK BEAUTIFUL QUESTIONS

    the quality of your life is determined by the quality of the questions you ask. often in life, we avoid asking the difficult questions....
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    SAY SORRY
    nicole calder
    • Jun 20, 2021
    • 2 min

    SAY SORRY

    even if you don't think you're in the wrong. apologising doesn't mean you accept the other person's behaviour, nor does it mean you don't...
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    DO WHAT YOU WANT
    nicole calder
    • May 31, 2021
    • 2 min

    DO WHAT YOU WANT

    because why would you want to do something you didn't want to do? i suspect for many people there's a significant amount of resistance...
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    BEFORE YOU CALL THEM CRAZY...
    nicole calder
    • Jan 27, 2021
    • 1 min

    BEFORE YOU CALL THEM CRAZY...

    try to understand. behind every insecurity is a need that hasn’t been met. a desire that went unfulfilled. and a belief that has become...
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    COMPASSION
    nicole calder
    • Sep 9, 2020
    • 2 min

    COMPASSION

    through most of my life, people have told me that i think too much. that i analyse too much. that i can be “too much”. but here’s what i...
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    YOUR BOSS IS A HUMAN TOO
    nicole calder
    • May 30, 2020
    • 1 min

    YOUR BOSS IS A HUMAN TOO

    this past week, i witnessed two men i respect become vulnerable with me. one admitted that he had been struggling with motivation ever...
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